Born: 1985
Location: New York City
Former Religious Affiliation: Christian
My Story:
I was raised in a conservative Christian family and I came to the (post-Jesus) light as a teenager after questioning the highly illogical teachings I was spoon fed at home & at Jesus Camp. Since then, I have been joyfully embracing the beauty of living for this life, not some notion of an afterlife.
I am happy and proud to say that I recently celebrated eleven years as a Free Thinker. It wasn’t until this year that I stumbled across the secular community of Humanists and have since identified as one. This does not conflict with my identification as Atheist as the two are not mutually exclusive. A lot of people wonder what the difference between Humanist or Atheist or Agnostic is. To explain this, I did a little research and did my best to put together some simplistic definitions.
Etymological Meaning
Agnostic comes from the Greek word Gnosis, which means knowledge, the ‘a’ in front changes it to mean without knowledge.
Atheistic also has its roots in the Greek language. Theism is equated to belief, the ‘a’ in front changes it to mean without belief.
However, there are also common usages of these words which many people identify with. Where do you fall on this Free Thinker spectrum? You may surprise yourself!
Free Thinker Spectrum
Spiritual (I identify as a member of an organized religion, but the God I worship does not have the same rules as the traditional God of that religion, ie: I’m a Christian, but I think people in the LGBT community should be able to marry/ I’m Jewish, but I eat pork/I’m Muslim, but I don’t think women should have to cover up) or (I don’t identify with any organized religion, but I believe in a god/higher power).
Agnostic (I don’t know, but I believe in something) or (No one can know, so why bother about it?)
Agnostic Atheist (I don’t believe in a god but I can’t rule out the possibility that there is one just because I do not have knowledge that it exists. Basically, I admit that my belief that there is no god is just as baseless as your belief that there is a god)
Atheist (I don’t believe in a god or gods and I don’t need knowledge or proof that there is no god or gods because it is on the believer to prove the existence of a god not on the nonbeliever)
Humanist (I believe that people can be good without a belief in god and am skeptical of untested claims). It is also inclusive of all the above categories.
“…show me what there is, ethically, in any religion that can’t be duplicated by Humanism” -Christopher Hitchens
My recent identification with Humanism has reinvigorated my love for Humanity, albeit we are a rowdy bunch! This love is what encourages me to speak out about some of the things I believe organized religion got wrong (but continues to do) listed below:
Science Denial
This has led to the stifling of education and research in the sciences. We depend on the growth and development in our life sciences as a species. We don’t have claws or fangs, we only have our minds to help us survive. Science denial, such as refusing to teach evolution in classes or banning stem-cell research, stamps out the growth and development of the life-saving field of the applied sciences.
Faith Healing
This is the practice that allows parents to let their children die from curable diseases, like tumor growths in their necks that slowly close their windpipes…these innocent children die horrible, and avoidable, deaths because their parents leave it up to God to cure them. Think Faith Healing doesn’t exist? Think again. It is a legally sanctioned practice; in fact, thirty-one states have child-abuse religious exemptions.
(Do you need any more reason for a separation of church and state?)
Abstinence Only Sex Education
Under President George W. Bush, a crusade to eradicate safe sex was waged. Unfortunately, this led to the dramatic rise of teenage pregnancy and STD incidence rates during Bush’s presidency. If you are thinking that this just isn’t a good enough reason to teach teens about safe sex, think about the effects of this policy in other parts of the world. This evangelical “no-condom = ready for sex!” attitude is reiterated by the Pope and various Western proselytizers who have influence in many AIDS ravaged African Nations. What’s worse than a peak in teenage pregnancy? Thousands upon thousands of babies born HIV positive.
Fear and Hate Mongering
While many of the organized religions that dominate the Western World (Judeo-Christian and Islam) purport to teach to love thy neighbor, these large religious institutions are mutually exclusive. Put bluntly, this means that, by their own doctrine, these religious followers condemn everyone outside of their religion to Hell when they die (and if they don’t condemn everyone else then they fall on the Free Thinker Spectrum). Like burning forever in a pit of fire, HELL! How’s that for teaching love?
Blind Faith
And perhaps worst of all, religion teaches people to be satisfied with the nonexplanation of things. It is only because people fostered a healthy sense of skepticism that humanity has managed to accomplish so many things, including the development of a vaccine for polio, the civil rights and women’s liberation movements, outlawing slavery and walking on the moon. It is my deepest wish that people never succumb to a faith that denies them the right to ask why, instead, let them foster a love for knowledge and when they are told not to question, to always respond by asking “why not?”
On this note, I ask you, reader, to consider honestly your theological beliefs this season. Do you believe in all the tenets of the religion you subscribe to (including the bit about the World being just a little over 2 thousand years old) or do you pick and choose which parts to believe in? It is my hope that Free Thinkers of all kinds will come forward, come out to your friends and families and start living an authentic life. You have one life to live and I urge you not to be satisfied on your spiritual journey until you find things out for your self.
PS. Many Atheists celebrate some version of Christmas (which was originally a Pagan holiday to celebrate the solstice!). There is nothing wrong with gifts, trees, singing and (most of all) family togetherness. None of this requires the pretense of a belief in a God. I believe the holiday season should include honesty — with oneself and loved ones.
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Nice Job Rachael….very informative…and as expected from you….very well written. Congrats on 11 yrs of free thinking. You’ve come a long way from the girl I knew. All for the best it appears.
Well, let’s see
I have no truck with beliefs
Too often former religious people switch to the religions of the here and now (i.e. Marxism), replacing their unproven and non-existent gods with unproven historical patterns and non-existent workers’ paradises
Shed belief
You can believe in your friends, you can believe in your family (well, sometimes)
Your country? Well, you owe something to it. You decide what. Just sayin’ as they do a lot of stuff for you and others, even if it is only to keep each other from rampaging in the streets
For many people, they are just not ready. They have a need to believe. And if they do not fill that with their magical invisible friend then they fill it with pie in the sky bye and bye utopian crap that leads to purges (that you can believe in for sure)
All GOD said was, live a life free of any sins or mistakes, committed knowingly or unknowingly in deeds, thoughts or in words. Since living it is not as simple as it reads, GOD also said, if you remember ME all the time, you will be able to achieve it – PERIOD.
Just reread the above and ask yourself isn’t it possible? Isn’t it easy, if we only listen to it and follow it. Man will never commit a mistake if he were to remember GOD at every instance of his life.
Thats when a sincere prayer should read “GOD thank YOU for everything that YOU have given me. Please forgive me for all the sins or mistakes i may have committed knowingly or unknowingly in my devotion, thoughts, deeds or words. Please help me not to commit any mistakes or sins knowingly or unknowingly in my devotion, thoughts, deeds or words. GOD please show me the right path in my life, give me the strength, courage, guidance and hand hold me in walking the right path as shown by YOU. Please help me to remember YOU, seek YOU, serve YOU, surrender to YOU and worship YOU every single moment of my life. GOD please show me the right way to worship YOU. Please take care of me GOD. Thank you GOD.
Leave GOD aside now, isn’t it how man should live his life, without committing any sins or mistakes, knowingly or unkowingly in our deeds, thoughts or words? How many have us have been able to achieve it and for how long – one hour / single day / one week / one month / one year?
Rachael if one lives his / her life the way as it is mentioned above, one does not need GOD. Since one can’t manage a single day like that, we need GOD to help us achieve it.
One needn’t go to any temple / church / mosque or pray to Krishna, Jesus or Allah. One can sit at home and sincerely seek HIM and HE will reveal HIMSELF to you. Why we go to Temple / Church / Mosque is simply because in that environment it is easy to connect. It’s like anyother store for a product. Since man knows HIM as Allah, Buddha, Jesus or Krishna we pray to HIM the way we know HIM. All of us go to the same GOD. Since man’s primal need is to look for more, GOD has given many ways to reach HIM.
Live your life that way consistently, live life by need and not by greed….then come back and tell us, how differently do you see life. If you are able to live like that, you don’t have to say a single prayer and by the end of a few years come back and tell us if you see GOD in your life or not.
Sad part is this religion / church / temple / priests / godmen what not have come in between and made a business out of it, to earn a living for themselves. When they set out, they were all in the right direction. It’s only with time they realized it’s not as easy as it sounds and eachone got into his comfort zone depending on what it was for money / sex / easy life etc.
GOD is only so much. If you get to understand him by following the above then you shall understand every little bit of it, as to why you miss your bus somedays, why does someone hurt you, why bad happens to good people, why birds come and sing by your window etc
Life on earth is a test, similar to the exams / interviews we need to pass to progress in physical life.
You have chosen to be born on earth, for this is where you can speed up your growth, for decisions are made by free will and if you keep making the right decisions you pass your tests faster and you are on your way to a spiritual life into the vast galaxies, that man today has only a few pictures off……